December 3, 2025

The Founder Identity Crisis: Jess Mah on Losing Everything and Starting Again

Jess Mah has one of the wildest founder journeys in Silicon Valley.

She taught herself to code at 10. Launched her first company at 11. Got into Berkeley at 16. Joined Y Combinator at 19. Landed magazine covers. Raised money. Built a company people said would “change everything.”

And then it all collapsed.

Jess ran out of money. Laid off her entire team. Fell into a long, brutal burnout that forced her to confront who she was when the hype disappeared. Most founders never talk about these moments. Jess does. Openly, fearlessly, and with a level of honesty you rarely hear from anyone who’s been placed on a pedestal that young.

And that’s what makes this conversation special.

This episode is raw, honest, energizing, and full of the kind of clarity that only comes from someone who’s lived through hype, collapse, reinvention, and purpose-driven building. Jess is one of the most multidimensional entrepreneurs I know, and I’m excited for you to hear this one.

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – The 996 debate and the myth of “hustle harder”

03:00 – How burnout really shows up

05:00 – Presence vs. productivity

06:00 – Meaning, fulfillment, and what we want at the end of life

08:00 – Why in-person connection still matters

09:00 – Vibes, energy, and choosing the right people

10:00 – Negativity, insecurity, and online projection

12:00 – Are we living through a once-in-a-generation moment

13:30 – Biotech, BCI, and the future of being human

15:00 – Emotional health, identity, and finding love

17:00 – Hobbies, flow states, and building a life outside work

19:00 – How Jess avoided being typecast as a founder

22:00 – Why mentorship is a lifelong process

24:00 – Meeting your heroes and learning from people “five levels up”

27:00 – Tough businesses and why biotech is brutal

29:00 – Reinvention and multi-industry curiosity

31:00 – Fertility, health, and the next wave of physical-world innovation

33:00 – Rare diseases, orphan drugs, and what Jess is building next

35:00 – Cancer research and “normalizing” tumors

38:00 – Longevity, clean living, microplastics

41:00 – Can humans live to 500

43:00 – China’s edge in AI and energy

45:00 – Aviation, rockets, and supersonic dreams

47:00 – Identity, judgment, and founder pressure

51:00 – Personal growth and generational trauma

54:00 – Parenting, boundaries, and becoming a better CEO

58:00 – The founder’s true journey: becoming a different version of yourself

1:02:00 – The future of education and AI tutors

1:06:00 – Nonprofits, AI leverage, and impact at scale

1:10:00 – The weirdest topics we nerd out on

1:14:00 – Consciousness, reincarnation, quantum intuition

1:17:00 – What Jess would tell her 19-year-old self

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